BRIDEZILLA!!

Why brides become a bridezilla? sometimes is family pressure or maybe is too much information a lot of things to do at once, let us breathe and enjoy this beautiful process that every woman dreams to be perfect.

Many times we drown in a glass of water to be able to fulfill our commitments with everything we have to do, whether this is family, work, or friends, The truth is that it is exhausting and unhealthy to try to achieve perfection. 

Not all of us move on in life in the same way. and this has been difficult for me to learn it, sometimes we push ourselves too hard we forget that we should be kind to ourselves and that applies to all things in life especially when you planning an event.

 Don't get me wrong, it's not that you're not disciplined or that you don't give your best. It is super important that you demand yourself taking into consideration your abilities and the situations you have at that moment. each one of us is dealing with different circumstances, SO BE KIND

When you plan an event, it is very detail-oriented and quite time-consuming, in the same way, not everything always goes as we want and it is not that we should settle for less than what we want. But if we accept that sometimes it is better for us not to insist and not wear ourselves out trying to reach perfection.

 For example, when you are looking for a location with all the requirements that you understand, it is the best for you and for your guests, suddenly the dates you requesting for the venue there are not available or maybe it is out of your budget, we generally get frustrated by not being able to obtain what we think we need. 

It is quite difficult for us to understand that the universe is sending us signals that somehow it does not suit us and shows us other options. Many brides become Bridezilla because simply the flowers that they want are not in season or the (Best man) at the last minute notify that he will not be able to attend the event or the weird requests from our parents especially regarding sitting arrangements among others. 

We forget that all that matters is the special moment that belongs to us, the ones who should be happy and pleased is the bride and groom,  so let's relax and learn to share the process with our family and friends (Share not doing what they want ) this special moment should be enjoyed and not go crazy trying to please everyone.

 And never forget that we all move on a different perspective.

Happy weekend!!